This is going to cost me
Originally Posted by PSS-Mag
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Once you say I do then you are expected to "help" with the domestics. (In other words do the domestics) Which translates to you now have to do "everything" that she doesnt like doing. Which she had never complained about any of it before. There is an emphasis on "help" and "everything" for a reason.
This is just a general observation after 12 years of my own marital surprises as well as watching many others along the way.
Once you say I do then you are expected to "help" with the domestics. (In other words do the domestics) Which translates to you now have to do "everything" that she doesnt like doing. Which she had never complained about any of it before. There is an emphasis on "help" and "everything" for a reason.

This is just a general observation after 12 years of my own marital surprises as well as watching many others along the way.
Originally Posted by deapee
I hear you...but I've told my girlfriend 100 times...I'll do the dishes or vacuum as soon as she starts cutting the grass or shoveling the snow in the winter...heck, I'll help her if she replaces light bulbs when they burn out or fixes a leak when it pops up. She knows what's up. If marriage changes that, then I'll be a believer...until then, I just don't know.
Originally Posted by etrevino103186
This thread is not very conducive to my current state of my mind!
I was thinking of asking my gf soon hmmm 
I was thinking of asking my gf soon hmmm 
She's next...maybe...
Originally Posted by deapee
I was thinking the same thing about a month ago...then I decided to buy an F150 instead
She's next...maybe...
She's next...maybe...

some of you older dudes are really scarin some of us younger guys about this.
i mean yeah theres gotta be ups and downs, but youre makin it sound like its 100% bad.
if it really was for you guys then you wouldnt still be with that person...
i mean yeah theres gotta be ups and downs, but youre makin it sound like its 100% bad.
if it really was for you guys then you wouldnt still be with that person...
Guy’s I will not put down being married, I have been married over 5 year’s. I was with her for like 3 year’s before that. But I will say that being married is not a very easy thing. You have to put 100% every day, I would not advise it if you are still young. I was 33, You also have to be past the “Sweating the small stuff stage of you life” You must be secure with your self also. This crap of “Don’t be looking at other guy’s” Stuff doesn’t work. And the same with her, if the both of you have that problem, I would not get married. It’s just like my wife running the stoplight, Sure she is a screw up but I knew that before. And yes I did talk smack to her for doing it, but that was it. It’s over. Pay the ticket and try not to do it again. There are to many other things to worry about.
Having a kid is what really made us a family. And at this point in my life I would not change a thing between us. I love my Wife, and I love my son.
Having a kid is what really made us a family. And at this point in my life I would not change a thing between us. I love my Wife, and I love my son.
Originally Posted by bigdad8214
Well running the red light is going to cost her $387.00 and $29 for traffic school $416 bucks!! Looks like she will be putting in some OT and work for the next couple of weeks.
And the driving school is what.....7 hours? Longer? And then time off from work? Loosing a days pay.......I dunno.......
Damn....I still can't get over the ticket is $387! Someone's wallet is getting fat while yours has nothing but dust!
Originally Posted by bigdad8214
Well running the red light is going to cost her $387.00 and $29 for traffic school $416 bucks!! Looks like she will be putting in some OT and work for the next couple of weeks.
That's steep!If they ever install those cameras around here, I'll be shooting the bird at every potential red light I run.
Originally Posted by Budha05STX
That's steep!If they ever install those cameras around here, I'll be shooting the bird at every potential red light I run.


We now have a few intersections that are now being surveyed.....
Originally Posted by bigdad8214
Well running the red light is going to cost her $387.00 and $29 for traffic school $416 bucks!! Looks like she will be putting in some OT and work for the next couple of weeks.



