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Old Apr 30, 2007 | 10:52 AM
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Once you say I do then you are expected to "help" with the domestics. (In other words do the domestics) Which translates to you now have to do "everything" that she doesnt like doing. Which she had never complained about any of it before. There is an emphasis on "help" and "everything" for a reason.

This is just a general observation after 12 years of my own marital surprises as well as watching many others along the way.
I hear you...but I've told my girlfriend 100 times...I'll do the dishes or vacuum as soon as she starts cutting the grass or shoveling the snow in the winter...heck, I'll help her if she replaces light bulbs when they burn out or fixes a leak when it pops up. She knows what's up. If marriage changes that, then I'll be a believer...until then, I just don't know.
 
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Old Apr 30, 2007 | 10:59 AM
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I hear you...but I've told my girlfriend 100 times...I'll do the dishes or vacuum as soon as she starts cutting the grass or shoveling the snow in the winter...heck, I'll help her if she replaces light bulbs when they burn out or fixes a leak when it pops up. She knows what's up. If marriage changes that, then I'll be a believer...until then, I just don't know.
Ohh no, you still have to do all of that with out any help too. It's evil I tell you evil!!!! It dont happen over night, I'm not real sure how they accomplish it. One week they ask for "help", then a few months later ask for "help: again. Then a month later ask again. Time gets shortened between askings and beofre you know it, 5 years later you are doing it every week! Then one day you realize and your like WTF?
 
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Old Apr 30, 2007 | 01:35 PM
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This thread is not very conducive to my current state of my mind! I was thinking of asking my gf soon hmmm
 
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Old Apr 30, 2007 | 08:21 PM
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This thread is not very conducive to my current state of my mind! I was thinking of asking my gf soon hmmm
I was thinking the same thing about a month ago...then I decided to buy an F150 instead

She's next...maybe...
 
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Old Apr 30, 2007 | 08:38 PM
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Originally Posted by deapee
I was thinking the same thing about a month ago...then I decided to buy an F150 instead

She's next...maybe...
Well I already have mine so maybe I should....hmmm
 
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Old Apr 30, 2007 | 08:51 PM
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some of you older dudes are really scarin some of us younger guys about this.
i mean yeah theres gotta be ups and downs, but youre makin it sound like its 100% bad.
if it really was for you guys then you wouldnt still be with that person...
 
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Old Apr 30, 2007 | 09:13 PM
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Guy’s I will not put down being married, I have been married over 5 year’s. I was with her for like 3 year’s before that. But I will say that being married is not a very easy thing. You have to put 100% every day, I would not advise it if you are still young. I was 33, You also have to be past the “Sweating the small stuff stage of you life” You must be secure with your self also. This crap of “Don’t be looking at other guy’s” Stuff doesn’t work. And the same with her, if the both of you have that problem, I would not get married. It’s just like my wife running the stoplight, Sure she is a screw up but I knew that before. And yes I did talk smack to her for doing it, but that was it. It’s over. Pay the ticket and try not to do it again. There are to many other things to worry about.

Having a kid is what really made us a family. And at this point in my life I would not change a thing between us. I love my Wife, and I love my son.
 
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Old May 6, 2007 | 12:07 PM
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Well running the red light is going to cost her $387.00 and $29 for traffic school $416 bucks!! Looks like she will be putting in some OT and work for the next couple of weeks.
 
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Old May 6, 2007 | 12:15 PM
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Well running the red light is going to cost her $387.00 and $29 for traffic school $416 bucks!! Looks like she will be putting in some OT and work for the next couple of weeks.
WTF? Are you freakin' kidding me? $387 for a red light? Holy good god d$%^! But since she is electing for the driving school, she still has to pay for the ticket? At least drop some off the ticket price? So basically you are paying 29 bucks NOT to get a few points on the license?

And the driving school is what.....7 hours? Longer? And then time off from work? Loosing a days pay.......I dunno.......

Damn....I still can't get over the ticket is $387! Someone's wallet is getting fat while yours has nothing but dust!
 
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Old May 6, 2007 | 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted by bigdad8214
Well running the red light is going to cost her $387.00 and $29 for traffic school $416 bucks!! Looks like she will be putting in some OT and work for the next couple of weeks.
That's steep!

If they ever install those cameras around here, I'll be shooting the bird at every potential red light I run.
 
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Old May 6, 2007 | 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Budha05STX
That's steep!

If they ever install those cameras around here, I'll be shooting the bird at every potential red light I run.
When they first tried here, it was suppose to be for "survailance" only. But they kept getting shot out from behind with small caliber rifles or arrows! Apparently rednecks dont appreciate being watched.

We now have a few intersections that are now being surveyed.....
 
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Old May 6, 2007 | 12:26 PM
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"The man" is trying to control us every way he can.
 
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Old May 6, 2007 | 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Stealth
"The man" is trying to control us every way he can.
Me thinks bigdad8214 should change his name to bigbrother8214.
 
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Old May 6, 2007 | 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by bigdad8214
Well running the red light is going to cost her $387.00 and $29 for traffic school $416 bucks!! Looks like she will be putting in some OT and work for the next couple of weeks.
Is she going to run red lights anymore? I was in a bad wreck several years ago by someone who was in a hurry, so I have no sympathy.
 
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Old May 6, 2007 | 04:00 PM
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Fascinating tread, Captain.
 
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