I said might because I don't want to come off as a creep to her. If she does say no when I ask her I would still want us to be friends. I mean I use to hate work then I became interested in her and now I can't wait to go to work and see her.

The statement about the club thing...well I have thought of that. I mean for us to be a couple she would have to give that up. I mean what fun would it be for her to have all the fun while I stay home. I guese I can convince her to just have some people over and have our own club but that would only work sometimes...I just wish I was a little older.

 

She may like u but even then she has friends and they will give her hell for it and when they want to go to the club and she says she is staying home with u they are going to talk s**t about how yall aren't right and she should come out with them. So either beat up her friends or find someone else. Besides if yall are "friends" that can be better than datin anyway.

 

Did I hear someone around here say they know a 24-year-old woman who's interested in a younger man?!

 

Future ladies man right there.

 

Well when you say clubs there aren't any real "Clubs" around here. Tere are bars and stuff but no like dancin on people and stuff like that. Well I work with most of her friends too. They all went to high school together. I have because pretty good friends with one of the guys she hangs with. He is engaged so I don't have to worry about him. I don't know like every single friend she has but I know when she does go out its with the people at work there and they all approve of me. I talk to her and her friends about every free second I get. Since I have met her she has really gotten me to open up. For example before I wouldn't talk to hardly anyone and I was always the quite one. How she has somehow gotten my really personality out of me. I now go up to any woman or man that works there look them straight in the eyes and talk to them. Well sometimes Its hard to find something to start a topis with but with Shannon(the girl) I talk to her about everything. I have slowly started getting into her personal life. I am trying to get to know her better. Tomarrow I AM going to go in and see her and just talk to her for a little while. Oddly enough I like working when she is working and find myself wanting to stay longer just to see her.

 

Man just do it already. Hell even if she says no big freakin deal. I asked one of the girls I kinda work with out once, turns out she is with someone. Never been a big deal to either of us I see her at times and we still talk like we used to.

Hell least you'll know you tried instead of wondering "If i only had the ***** to try"

 

I won't be able to do it untill Tomarrow at the earliest.

 

I didnt mean right now, just stop putting it off or your gonna miss a chance.

 

Well I think I will do it this Saturday. I am just going to tell her how I feel and see how she takes it. I am pondering on when to do it. I think after work is the most appropriate but I usually leave before her. I will try and milk some time and walk out to her car with her and tell her.

 

I used to date a girl that was 5 years older than me. At the time, I was 21 and she was 26. I worked with her for 6 months and then left the company. I took her out on my motorcycle one summer night and we ended up going back to her place to bump some uglies. We then dated for 3 years, the age difference wasn't a problem with us because I was still old enough to do everything she did. The biggest problem you will have is that she can obviously do things that you cant (i.e. going out drinking and stuff). This really limits what you two can do together. I'm sure youre still in high school and everything and you guys probably have completely different social lives. It will probably just take its toll even if you guys try it. But then again, every one of us doubting you could be completely wrong. I guess you never really do know until you BALL UP AND TAKE THE PLUNGE. If she says no, big freakin deal. Good luck buddy

 

Dont go with all the feelings stuff, just ask her out to do something.

 

Thats what I was going to do and then once we go do something tell her the way I feel about her. Well I guese I will attemt to prove you all wrong Saturday night. I may try and see if I can work Friday night and see if she wants to do something Saturday day.

 

Is this the same girl you were going to ask out months ago?

 

I was wondering the same thing myself. Sure there are plenty of shallow women out there who wouldn't date a younger guy because he can't get into the bars and stuff but there are also plenty that aren't into the club scene and would rather spend their time doing simple things with someone they care about, no matter what his age. We're not all materialistic bimbos guys, sheesh