Trekkies....

 

Nah, not worth it. If caught in the act its a given beat-down as it would be easy(er) to get off in court. Hunting the person down and wailing on them is no-brainer conviction for even a newb prosecutor.

If it was a wife, then just divorce her *** and screw her out of everything possible. Leave her broke and pennyless on the street.

 

I would try the insanity defense because I'm pretty sure I would be out of my mind for a little while anyways.

As far as broke and pennyless, she was that way when I married her so no good there. Don't ever marry a broke woman, it just takes the life right out of ya!

 

Again, that's a strong case if you find them in the act and beat the snot out of him right then... hunting him down afterwards is not good.

 

I probably wouldn't be mad at the dude. Not mad enough to go after him. If I think she's hot, certainly someone else will too. Besides, as I've said above- some women will let you in, then afterwards tell you they're married, or have a boyfriend. They'll even lie and say they don't, knowing they do, sometimes they just don't care...

When I was in Wurzburg, Germany, two married women, both in the chow hall, were hot for me, red hot. Make the first move kinda hot. Their moves (at different times) were so forward- and my reluctance to proceed had my boys questioning my sexuality. "Dawg! You ain't gonna hit that? What are you, gya or something? If that was me, I'd be waxing..." I said, no, it's not that; I just don't believe in messing around with married women. What goes around comes around. One of them replied- "You aren't cheating, she is... You didn't take no vows, did you?"

One of the girls (Civilian wife, working in the chow hall) was so blatant, she came into my barracks, at NIGHT- somehow found my room on the 4th floor, and came to see me. She would not take no for an answer. She was the aggressor. I asked her, "Aren't you married?" She replied, "You let ME worry about that..."

You let ME worry about that...

It was stuff like this that made me realize women are no better than men when it comes to adultery. They are not the angels or helpless victims so many try to pretend to be when time comes to take responsibility for ones actions.

I did spend time with this woman (Peer pressure is a *****, especially when you're 18, 19, 20 years old) but I never went "there".

So, I'm sure if I found out my wife was cheating, I'd just kick her out- or I'd probably leave. No, I'd kick her out. Her mom lives close by- she has access to another house. I wouldn't hunt the guy down or anything. Being a man, and knowing how we think- I couldn't pursue a guy over something like that. Unless the guy knew me, or was my friend and betrayed me.

But, if I came in and caught them, I don't know what would happen... One thing is an almost certainty- someone would need emergency medical care: me, him, her, or them. Someone's going to need stitches, or more.

 

Looks like I am late to the game, but I'll share my opinion.

In 2000, I met this chick through a friend of mine who turned out to be a pretty cool girl, or so I thought. We dated for a little while (maybe 2 months) and then she cheated on me (with my best friend). So, whatever I kicked her to the curb. She was with him for almost 3 years, and during that time, I became very good friends with them as a couple. I even helped them move a couple times. Anyway....

Fast forward to 2004, the girl re-appears and all those old feelings come pouring back, talking about how she wants to get married and she loves me and how much of a damn fool she was for doing that to me, but how she was a child back then (19 yrs old) and she would never do anything to hurt me. After being single for 3+ years, I was like "Cool!" So yeah, we got back together.

I spent somewhere around $10k to get a new apartment (I had been renting a room in someone's house), fly her down to California from Montana, ship all her **** down, buy all new stuff for the apartment (furniture, TV, electronics, etc..) since I had nothing, and the list goes on and on and on. Well, I find out sometime after she comes down that she has a new friend in town whose name is Martin, and he's a gay fashion model. I thought to myself, whatever that's cool the guy likes the **** anyway, nothing's gonna happen, right?

Wrong. Caught her cheating on me AGAIN. Only this time we were engaged and she was wearing the ring I paid $1200 for. Once I found out, I called her cell phone and asked her what was up with the e-mail I had found, blah blah and she denied everything. That was when I read a passage from the e-mail and she immediately hung up on me. She knew she'd been caught.

So I called her back and told her "You have approximately 30 minutes to get your *** home, get your ****, and get out. In 29.5 minutes, I am throwing everything you own AND your cat outside, I suggest you hurry." She got there real fast, put on a waterworks show (hoping maybe I would take her back) and I just sat on my nice new leather couch with a couple buddies whom I had called for "support" and drank some beer while she moved her ****. I refused to help her. She asked me where was she supposed to go and I replied "That's none of my ****ing concern, just GET OUT."

Once she was done, she wanted to hug me before she left and I told her "NO, go hug that f**got you're ****ing." Or something like that. Anyway, fast forward to 2005, she's now had 3 more failed engagements, and she's all up in my grill again. I've since gotten married (to the most awesome girl on the planet BTW) and she (the cheating ****) totally envies my wife in every aspect. She's probably also mad that I buy my wife a new car every year or so when she's stuck driving the same old beater Kia Spectra. Oh well, not my problem. IMO, she had her chance and she "blew it" literally speaking

So the short answer is, NO I could not forgive a cheater. IMO, once a cheater always a cheater.

The End.

 

wow thats quite the story!! I'm glad everything worked out for you!!

I have a fear of being cheated on. I don't know why either?? I'm sure I have nothing to worry about

 

My wife and I have kind of an agreement. She cheats, she's gone with nothing. I cheat, I'm gone with nothing.

Man, I love my ***** just to much to have to give it all up. Oh yeah, I love her too.

 

Did anyone notice the only people who said a woman is not a ***** if/when she cheats are women? Totally typical if you ask me. If you cheat on your significant other, that makes you a *****. I don't care if any of these were involved or not:
Money
Emotions
Blackmail
Revenge
Alcohol/Drugs

If you cheat, you are a *****. Period, end of story.

KC-10 FE out...

 

I just like to say the word....*****, *****, *****, *****.

 

Never, take your pride and leave the skank.

 

Well, I know this to be a fact, if my wife ever cheats on me now...I'm going to hell, because a double homicide is a sin.

 

Looks like I know what I need to do to ensure Jamzwayne spends eternity in hell....

 

Sure ya wanna be sitting next to him forever........

 

I was gonna say something, but that's better.