That's smooth.... wish I could have thought of something that smooth....

Actually, I kind of did... long story short, I was working on a Sunday. Skipped out at lunch, and drove by 'his' place just out of curiosity (wasn't taking my calls, a common MO for her). She had told me she was going to Sam's Club (warehouse club, like Costco) even though she had just been there 3 days earlier. Of course, there's her truck, custom plates and all. Unmistakable. So, knowing her keyless entry code (we'd been dating for more than 2 years) I open the door and leave her a note on the dashboard: "Hope you had a good time at Sam's Club."

Then I went back to work. Life is much better now without her drama.

-Joe

 

Ahh crap dude, I hate to hear that for you. That's rough.

Has she called or anything since then?

Really non of my business but like to hear what she had to say...

Ohh wait let me guess.... "We're just good friends, we were just talking. He's having a rough time right now. blah blah blah"

Yep seen it happen 1000 times and been there once or twice myself.

 

ROFLOL... And here I thought my story was unique.... That's exactly the line she used!

Better watch what I say though... she could be watching still...

-Joe

 

Nope sorry not unique... LOL

When that doesnt work, then it's "Well you didn't/wern't/if you would have......." blah blah blah

Anything to make herself not seem so bad and make you feel like maybe it's your fault.

Reply to these excuses with, If you hadnt stepped out, and would have talked to me about it, then we could have been discusing this and work on it together as a couple huh......

 

I would attempt to lay the pipe to her friends/sister and when confronted about it deny the whole thing. Tell her that you were just playing tennis with them. They were bent over wearing short skirts and serving your *****.

Joe

 

Probably the best response I have heard yet.

Anyway if you are wondering I did break up with. I feel horrible about it she didnt even see it coming. Been on and off with her for 2 years (stupid military). I didnt dump her just because she flirted with some other guy via email. Obviously as stated above I have some real trust issues so I couldnt trust her, after yesterday she couldnt trust me.

I told her the truth because I dont like lying, she didnt seem to take it very well. I should have waited till Firday, then my friend Jack and I could have hung out

31C

 

You can hang out here buddy. We'll support ya.

Good for you though. You did the right thing! There is someone out there for you.

 

I think she looks better out of her tennis skirt. JK

 

I say you take her best friend to play "tennis"..... Lol

My girl did the same thing, hers was mostly chat, not email, but her computer saved the history. I only checked hers because I caught her checking mine, only reason she would be suspicious is if she was hiding something herself, I worked, came home to her, worked, came home to her, all that, no time for foul play. Well, I told her I wanted to see hers after that, she had been casually flirting with guys she had been with previously. Didn't last long after that....

 

Flirting with friends is one thing if it's just a joke and everybody has a laugh cause it's out in the open and ....it's just for laughs. But actually flirting with intention is another. That's just hurtful when your girl friend actually means it and hides it from you.

 

What the hell is wrong with you?

If she's talking like that, she's doing more than just flirting bro. Kick her to the curb before your weeny falls off from her bringing home a gift from her other men.

It hurts less in the long run.