A wise man hath spoken but I fear it has fallen on deaf ears.

 

You might want to learn to read between the lines. The kiss & make up is available. Will you be man enough to recognize and accept it?

 

probably not he likes his ***** right where they are.....alone and cold on a couch

 

Well which is it? I agree with your first post; if I don't get control; I'll be walked over again and again. I will settle for nothing less than a verbal apology.

 

What someone pointed out above, maybe Odin, women apologize differently. It is up to you to recognize that when she contacted you, that was your apology and all you will get. It was verbal, by the way, so it satisfys your requirement. Just accept it and consider yourself in control. Or, make up your mind that this is not how you can live your life and move on, cause that is her basic nature, she will not do much changing.

 

Good Call. I'll end it tonight. As much as I think people can change; they don't.

 

ok. I am assuming you are a hard headed SOB like myself. I agree with you, but I will have to say the guys on here are only trying to help. As for you saying you want to keep your *****. I remember a certain poster who came on here not so long agao and was trying to figure out how to get hir girlfriend back who just left him after they bought a house. You couldnt be being so stubborn because you dont want to be hurt again, could you?

 

I suspect there is more of a negative feeling than just what this incident brought about. You seem very determined to "push" it to head. I will say this, if the confrontation was as you protrayed it, she was not willing to allow you to finish what you were working on to have a meal, then she sounds pretty inconsiderate. But I always qualify, as we have heard only one side.

 

From what i understand when it comes to relationships, the sooner you realize the above statement to be absolutely, undeniably, the complete truth. The better off you and said relationship will be.

Good luck on your journey, maybe look into getting a sleeper sofa or something.

 

Mountaineer, if your girl is a pain in your butt, you are definately doing something wrong my friend. Possibly trade positions or something.

 

See what you've done Jamzwayne. I try and start a silly random post and now it looks like I'm on a Ford Truck forum looking for relationship advice . Gee Wiz.

BTW, I was kidding about ending it. Actually after work I'm going to a job-fair for a company in the same building she works in. I was surprised when I noticed that little detail when I looked up the address. I should be done around the same time she gets off work so I can get a ride back home with her. (I Bus to work)

 

You think so, do you??

 

Like it's my fault.

I was actually having a lot of fun with this thread too....like giving BS advice and what not. I guess I am lacking in the joking department.

 

Suck it Canadian! I just checked; and she's cool.

 

UC, you just got to thinking about how it was living without and you caved. No big deal, we all have. We don't think any less of you. Well, not too much.