I was hunting this weekend and on sunday i talked to my girlfriend and she said that she wanted to hang out before she had to go to practice at 6:30. So i leave and get home at 4:45. when i get home shes not home, well at 6:00 she calls and asked how long ive been home and i say an hour. i ask where she has been and she said a friends house and i ask who's there and it is just her a guy named ray and a guy named tim, also tim likes her.well then i get kinda mad because she is there. my question is was i wrong for getting mad at her for being there or do i have a right to mad.

 

My first response is HELL YES!! But before jumping to conculsions, I don't know the whole story between you and your girlfriend, i.e., how old are you both, how long have you been together, any friction in the past. But, regardless, it does seem strange that she is with two other dudes. Now, she does admit she is with two other dudes, so my understanding, she seems like it's no big deal and nothing is going on except just hanging out. At the same time, I still would be pissed. You need to clear-the-air and talk it over with her. (That being, you both are secure with your relationship and mature enough to do so.) Hope things work out!!

 

I think you need to take Tim hunting with you next week end, He needs to have an "Accident"

 

I'm not sure what's up with Tim, but the last time I spoke to Ray he mentioned something about your girlfriend "riding like a fine Italian sports car"....?

 

Yup. Being young enough to remember my teen years and being the jealous type I'd say you're perfectly right. Now either one of two things happened there at her friends place. 1. Nothing 2. the stuff dreams are made of. Nothing good will come of beating this horse to death with your GF, but if you're about the age I think you are you will anyway.

Before things get too ugly explain why you were upset to your GF, then make plans to hook up with her sister or cuter best friend.

 

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That's just mean!!!

jmeyerholtz,
If that was my wife, or if I wans tmarried and was a GF... I would not be happy, nor amused.
As buckdropper would say... "I'd kick the bitch!"

 

Did she have a good reason for being there or was she hunting allso ? Buy a new 4 wheeler and forget about her !

 

Yeah, chicks are frustrating because of the whole "guy friend" thing. If the tables were turned and you said you wanted to hang out and she went to your place early and you called her a half hour before practice from a friends house hanging out with two girls, she'd be pissed.

 

Just remember, no matter what...you are ALWAYS wrong. We may think we are right, we are always wrong

 

I'd try that hangin out with 2 girls thing if possible, and it could really work out to prove your point if you could find 1 that like you a lot.


Words are usually heard, but action is almost always seen and understood.

 

when i talked to her she said that she was just overthere because she is his friend. which i understand but i wouldnt go over to some other girl's house because i know it would make her mad. she doesnt understand why it would bother me. so i told her what if i did the same thing to her, she said it wouldnt realy bother her except that i wasnt with her when i said i would.

 

Good point.


Bottom line. You are right, she is in the wrong. There is no excuse or reason why your GF or wife needs to be hanging around other guys ALONE. I've been there and done that. If she is the type that says she has guy friends and they hang out...he better be gay, or ready to be dumped.

 

I'd get UC's advice...he is a master at this relationship thing.

 

See my post above. LOL

As previously stated by another poster, actions speak louder than word and that goes in both directions.

 

Not to hijack or anything but where is UC? Haven't seen him on here in quite a while.