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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 05:04 PM
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Is this 'wrong'?

So my brother's wife had a baby this morning...their 5th..yikes! As i was looking at the photos it hit me..."I'd like another son/daughter - but just not with my wife as the mother."

weird I know...but the thought of having more kids w/ my current wife upsets me...yet I look at my brother's new daughter and think "yeah...I want another one"
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 05:06 PM
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So my brother's wife had a baby this morning...their 5th..yikes! As i was looking at the photos it hit me..."I'd like another son/daughter - but just not with my wife as the mother."

weird I know...but the thought of having more kids w/ my current wife upsets me...yet I look at my brother's new daughter and think "yeah...I want another one"

Why would that upset you?.....your wife is hot....
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 05:07 PM
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So my brother's wife had a baby this morning...their 5th..yikes! As i was looking at the photos it hit me..."I'd like another son/daughter - but just not with my wife as the mother."

weird I know...but the thought of having more kids w/ my current wife upsets me...yet I look at my brother's new daughter and think "yeah...I want another one"


so you're thinking the sister-in-law wants to go for #6?

 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 05:10 PM
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You want more kids with just a different mother for them? I'm confused, may I ask why?
No idea. Thinking about making more kids with my wife bothers me. Perhaps our marriage isn't stable? (it's not.) Perhaps it's the codeine I'm on today? (I am.)

I'd love a new son/daughter - that's for sure.
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 05:13 PM
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....Perhaps our marriage isn't stable? (it's not.).....

sorry to hear that man....
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 05:16 PM
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sorry to hear that man....

Thanks - it aint so bad. It'll be okay...one way or another.
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 05:19 PM
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Well, I just wish the wifey and I could have another. We cant have anymore, and I was really, really wanting to have a son.

On the bright side, I have a healthy Daddy's girl, and she is just like me....but it's not the same.

Good luck in your quest dmp, and be careful.
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted by jamzwayne
...I was really, really wanting to have a son.....

You can adopt me Jamz....that way...you can teach me how to Jamzwayne on people....I could carry that torch....
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted by wstahlm80
You can adopt me Jamz....that way...you can teach me how to Jamzwayne on people....I could carry that torch....
Why adopt this clown...........just send me a monthly child support check for $1000.00 to be your son and be done with it.
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 05:47 PM
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 07:04 PM
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On the bright side, I have a healthy Daddy's girl, and she is just like me....but it's not the same.
I was the opposite. I wanted a daughter first and got lucky, got the daughter who turned out to be a daddy’s girl to a point. She is and has always been very independent but still a daddy’s girl.

I would have liked to have a son but I wanted a daughter first. Never got the son, or at least not yet, but have no regrets with having a daughter.

The funny thing is I never thought she would turn out a lot like me. She is tidy and very **** about her vehicle. I fear for the **** that decides to even “think” about leaning against her car because if that happen all hell would break loose…
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 07:21 PM
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I fear for the **** that decides to even “think” about leaning against her car because if that happen all hell would break loose…

Daddy taught her shoot too, eh?
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 07:35 PM
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Daddy taught her shoot too, eh?
No, not a hunter or gun collector. I do own a shotgun for shooting intruders and neighborhood cats though...
 
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:58 PM
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No idea. Thinking about making more kids with my wife bothers me. Perhaps our marriage isn't stable? (it's not.) Perhaps it's the codeine I'm on today? (I am.)

I'd love a new son/daughter - that's for sure.
Sorry to hear that man...

I don't know how wierd it is or not but I do understand what you mean. I DO NOT want anymore kids as of right now and dont see wanting anymore woth my wife. We have 2 precious daughters. Well the youngest is a Tom Boy and anry, so dont know how precious, but she is precious to me.
We have talked about getting things fixed, but I do not want to myself, because... I feel our family is complete as it is. But, if something happens and we split up, then there will be a void in my life when she has the kids. If I met someone else I might want to start a second family with her as I try and restart my life again if that happens. So I don't want to get fixed "incase". Do you know what I mean?

Well anyway here's my business card if you need it...

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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 09:09 PM
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Originally Posted by PSS-Mag
Sorry to hear that man...

I don't know how wierd it is or not but I do understand what you mean. I DO NOT want anymore kids as of right now and dont see wanting anymore woth my wife. We have 2 precious daughters. Well the youngest is a Tom Boy and anry, so dont know how precious, but she is precious to me.
We have talked about getting things fixed, but I do not want to myself, because... I feel our family is complete as it is. But, if something happens and we split up, then there will be a void in my life when she has the kids. If I met someone else I might want to start a second family with her as I try and restart my life again if that happens. So I don't want to get fixed "incase". Do you know what I mean?
Bingo...you nailed it.
 
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