Well, as some of you know, my wife is freaking nuts...and we finally decided to get divorced. It turned into more of a seperation over the past couple of days, and she finally left today. But the reason was basically her jealousy. She always thinks I'm on the internet looking for other girls to be with (who are into Lightnings), she goes through my cell looking at who I'm talking to, goes through my email, the history on the computer... And, by the way, I would never cheat, so she's not justified.

So, I had the whole day to myself, and it was wonderful. And then I started thinking. And then I started to miss her. And finally, I was like, 'This is stupid. There's nothing we can't work through.'

So I drive down to Honolulu at 11pm at night, finally get to the hotel, and she's not answering her door. I'm like, "Okay, wrong room." So I go to the front desk, and on my way, lo and behold, I see her walking out of the hotel bar with some guy, and they go outside, light up cigarettes, and start chatting away.

I didn't stick around. I cannot put into words the freaking rage I felt, and still can't get out of my head.

...only one good thing came out of it. As I left the parking lot, and got on the highway, I got once last glimpse of her outside with her little @W#EWT%#@%@#! boyfriend or whatever, whipping around, wide-eyed, when she heard that supercharger and my tires start screaming. Hope she feels like $%^@, the @#%@#$@!! stupid @#$%^^@!.

Okay, end rant. I know, nobody cares. But I had to tell someone, and it's midnight, so a forum is good enough.

 

My oldest son had this insanely jealous wife...... who went to great lengths to "control" all that he did...... even to the point of trying to run-off his own family..... calling his customers wehn she'd see a number on his phone and going through his contract stuff..(he's a business phone consultant/programmer)....
It all shook out when he found that it was SHE who was messing around the whole time...... He's divorced now and having a wonderful time out from under that controlling witch.
Good luck with your situation........

 

It hurts..an no one wants to feel not wanted by someone they love...I found that if they don't trust you and YOU know your not running around then many times it means they are...For you to see this yourself and get mad will help you cope later...This door is closing BUT believe me that another one...a better one is opening for you..Just take some time..you are one the road to being free from the old crap...You will be happy...Take care and know I when through it and got a great woman now..she is a and vent here anytime..its safer...

 

Yeah... Thanks for all the support, guys. I'd love to say 'F**k her, I don't care.' But, in reality, it's 3am, I still can't sleep.

Oh well. Tomorrow will be a new day. Will work on the truck, hit the drag strip tomorrow... Oh yeah. And all free money goes towards the truck now, not her damned shoes.

 

Been through the divorce thing bud, and wouldn't wish it on anyone. You are losing your comfort zone in life. Even when it was bad, it was what you knew. It may not seem it now, but it will get better. Try to follow your head and not your emotions. In regards to her boyfriend, there's an old saying, "He who mistrusts the most, should be trusted least", now you know why she was always suspicious.

Good luck, and stay strong.

 

Well that sux! But who knows, maybe it was innocent? How'd you find out where she was staying? Did she tell you?

Hang in there, you'll be fine...

 

Thanks again, everyone. Just woke up, and it's a little easier this morning. I found out where she was staying by the number she left me so I could reach her. Called it, got the hotel, got her room number... That sort've thing.

And in all likelihood, she'd never seen that guy before. It just pissed me off even more that she was all dressed up, hair done, in the bar, and then apparently talking to some guy inside, then outside...

Hah, now I'm the jealous one.

 

So, has she called you yet?

 

Well, she's called countless times, I just haven't answered.