I posted this in my journal, so there is pleanty of foul language. Been having a rough day. Enjoy

Grrrrr. I'm having such a great ****ing day. First lunch was ****ty.

Then I get to work, and I have to line the courts after I get done sweeping them. WTF is that about?? I've never ever had to do that in the last 3 months I've been closing.

Then I get home, and my ****ing fat pasty dumb as **** brother is on the computer. No problem. I ask him to get off. Yeah ****ing 20 min later. When I have only 15 min left before I get to ****ing go to bed. Then he has the mother ****ing nerve to bitch that he always has to get off when I ask him to. SO I ****ing say back, well if I sat on my *** all day at home and did nothing I would get off for you too. Oh wait, I get off anyways, not like I spend all day at ****ing school or work. Fat mother ****ing ****. Why don't you get a job? Oh wait, that's becasue your a lazy fat ****. Your almost 20, mother ****ing t-w-e-n-t-y. Get a job and move out.

 

"3, 2, 1, ... 1, 2, 3, ...what the heck is bothering me??"

Breathe deeply brother...breathe deeply...

 

Sorry to hear about your day, there is a good thing tomarrow will come and it will be better. There is also another good thing, just think and tell you brother that he will go nowhere in life if he doesn't change his ways. He might laugh it off at the time but it will eat at him.

 

So...what was the problem?

Seriously, its pretty much always like this with siblings, my younger sister was the same way when we each had to share a computer...then I got my own

Granted I know I wasnt exactly quick to get off when she asked either

 

In the thread about your brother installing your air filter for you you liked him, but now when he dosen't get off the computer when you ask (I understand being unhappy about that) you call him names..? It just dosen't line up.

Anyhow, I hope you have a better day tomorrow, this ain't the end of the world

 

Joe, you need to chill my young brother.
Save your freaking out for the big things in life that come along, and try not to sweat the chicken ***** stuff.

You have to stay in control of your emotions, and not let external stuff make you a victom to things you can't control

We all have the inner rage, but you need to be in control of it, and not let it be in control of you.

Can you see the water from where you live? If not, drive down to a beach somewhere, and watch a sunset or sunrise, and then ask yourself "ok, why am I pissed off"
Enjoy the sunset, have a quiet moment with yourself, and realize how trivial some daily things are.

If that doesnt work, then go ahead a slap the ***** outa your brother

 

Wow, those are some huge problems man. I feel for you................

 

Notice there hasn't been one speedo pic in this thread?





























I am glad that's your biggest problem though. It'll pass.

 

Joe, I'm going to share with you a technique I have used for years to cope with people that cause me undue stress.

First, I sit quietly somewhere, my room, truck, outside, etc. Then I close my eyes and visualize that I am sitting on a beautiful grassy bank overlooking a quietly flowing stream. The water is crystal clear, the birds are chirping in the background. The sun is out and it warms my body. Now, my thoughts become focused, and as I look down at the creek I pretend I can actually make out the face of the person I'm holding underwater.

It's worked wonders for me Joe, you need to try it.

 

It would have been better if you broke out a shotgun and shot them noisy ****ing birds...

 

just to let you know you're not alone, my 12 year old regularly tells my 18 yr old that when they both move out. he's not givin' him any handouts anymore.
you'd have to know that the 12er has a brand new 4 wheeler he paid half for. the 18er has an old $700 jeep that he managed to have half for. just one example.

my money is on the 12er gettin' out before the 18. except of course for the house rule that says

if you aint in school or working, your out the door. this aint no homeless shelter.

 

I started to, but a cat that relocated from New Hampshire got them all for me.

 

what are you, like 15 years old? grow up & get over it!

 

Sumbitch, a cat I must have missed while out driving...

That's ok, I'll catch up to the kitty...

 

I've over it. It just pisses me off that he spends 24/7 at home and on the computer, but when I decide to get on the computer, he throws a hissy fit

OH well.