hey guys , i went ahead and bought the junk DDM hid kit , 35 6k ..

it has on connector , just the spade tips .. how do i wire this up ? i have put numerous motors in cars , but dont know how to do this

 

Id ebay a heavy duty relay harness. $8.99 on the bay. it will have your stock conector on it. and you wont have to worry about the lights flickering like i did. Just bought one myself. Driver light would only power up when it felt like it. This is indicative of HID's. I wouldnt cut the stock harness. you might want it again someday. and that might void a warranty. I thought i heard DDM was selling the bigger harness. Try calling them and tell them that your lights are flickering on and off. see if they will send you one for free.