That 2-3 upshift delay is definitely not normal. I am experiencing it as well. I'm taking my truck in for the fix next month.
There is a TSB for this issue. It is number 99-9-6. As long as your vehicle is under warranty, they will perform this.
The TSB states the following:
This concern is ONLY for vehicles with Ford Quality Remanufactured (FQR) 4R70W Transmission Exchange Units with Julian build dates between 062-97 and 040-99 (corresponding serial numbers are between R0475797 and R0771887).
ISSUE:
A delayed or no 2-3 upshift, primarily when the transmission is cold, may be evident on some vehicles. In some cases, Diagnostic Trouble Code (DTC) P0782 may also be present. This may be caused by fluid pressure leakage past the larger diameter seal of the 2-3 accumulator.
ACTION:
Replace the 2-3 accumulator piston using a revised piston. The revised piston will increase seal/bore interference, eliminating any internal leak relating to the 2-3 upshift concerns.
Piston Part number: F7AZ-7H292-AB
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1998 F-150 XLT 4x4 SC/SB 4.6L, Auto., 3.55LS, TTP, blah, blah, blah
All the info is at
http://www.fordf150.net
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