Thought I'd add in the 2006 info, in case someone is looking for it:
First : If you have not found it already, the fuse box location in the cab ( manual does a bad job of describing it ):
Fuse Box, Trailer specific items :
Relay numbers :
Trailer Fuse Locations :
With the factory tow package on the 2006, I only had to add in Relay #05, this is the full ISO relay. The other relays and fuses were installed at the factory ( different then my '01 ).
Gallery has some additional diagrams, including the 7 pin schematic and the pinouts for the 4 & 7 pin connectors, and the brake controller. Also I scanned them into a PDF if anyone wants them ( 2006 only, trying to find a '00 to 03 one to scan ).