First of all, the lifted truck in the pic appears to be a 4x4 with a 6 inch suspension lift and 35 inch tires. Keep in mind, your 4x2 sits 3 inches lower than a stock 4x4, so you would need 9 inches of lift to look identical to the red 4x4.
I'd suggest the 7.5 inch Fabtech lift and some 35x12.50's on a 8 inch wide wheel with 4.5 inches of backspacing.
2005 Expy, 305/45-22 Falkens on 22x9.5 Eagle 026s.
2011 Jeep Wrangler Unlimited, 2" lift, 33" BFG AT KO's on 17x9 Eagle 197s.
2012 Ram 2500 crewcab diesel. 5" RCX lift, 355/60-20 Nitto Terra Grapplers on 20x9 KMC XD Spys.