Hi Will:
Okay, your Toyo MT tires are exactly 33 inches tall (without considering the squat effect after being loaded by the weight of the vehicle) and 12.6 inches wide on those 20x10 Moto wheels. BFG does not offer a standard size in the ATs, but a corresponding metric size would be a LT305/55R20 which is slightly tall at 33.4 inches tall and same width at 12.6 inches on the 20x10 wheels, so not as squat looking with slightly more height. They would look really good as well.
I would go with Randy Ellis for the light bar
www.randyellisdesign.com as he has the best looking one out there. You can order it in black or anodized silver, and it has 4 mounting tabs for lights. It is well built, sleek looking, and bolts to the frame for a solid mount. As far as lights, I like PIAAs but they can run $200-$300 per set, so a nice option are some KC SlimLite Series Fog , Driving or Off Road Lights at half that price and they look good with similar mesh guards. They are also long lasting and have really good output.
Well, it's a different story on my vehicles as I have owned over 65 cars and trucks to date (and yes, I drive my wife crazy). I have owned almost everything from Opels and VWs to Range Rovers and Corvettes, but my real passion are 4x4s. I have had numerous Jeeps and 1/2 tons as well as a couple 3/4 tons, but they have all been four wheel drives. Since I live up in the high desert that has 11-12,000 ft mountains, river valley, and high desert all together, I really get to enjoy offroading and so I try to outfit my vehicles for actual 4x4 use, and have fun making them look good.
Here are a few pics of my offroading in a few of my vehicles:
As far as what I do with them, I usually sell them after I am done with them. For the most part, I sell them on ebay or through Autotrader and I usually break even if not make a few bucks. If done right, people will pay a bit more knowing you set it up right with professional installs and quality products. Sometimes I trade them in if the deal works in my favor as well. But I hardly keep anything as most folks want the vehicles with everything on them.
I think that is great you love to go offroading too. We have a blast doing it without beating them up too bad. You can get pretty silly and downright stupid about it, but we always go well prepared and nothing too extreme beyond what our vehicles were designed to do. About the worst we get is the occasional stuck where we have to pull someone out. Most of the wheeling I do is up mountain trails or dune running. But like you, as much fun as it is to get dirty, I can't wait to get home and clean my ride back up....lol.
The Dodge Ram is great....thanks for asking! I have taken a lot of grief from my Ford friends, but once they see it and ride in it they really are very impressed. I was really leaning towards buying the new F150, but after I drove the Dodge and saw all the quality improvements, not to mention the Hemi, I was sold. The Rambox is great as I can secure all my gear and still have a bed to use. There are also coolers in the rear floor, and storage everywhere. But the ride is fantastic, smoother than the new Ford. The F!50 still has a better tow rating, but I don't tow anything near that so it really didn't mean much to me. I actually am running about 400 HP with my exhaust and intake mods, and can get over 430 once I chip it. But even at the stock 390 HP and 400 lb-ft of torque, it's a blast to drive.
But I am sure I'll be back to another Ford F250 or even the Raptor with its 6.2L V8 that is coming out. Well, hope I answered most of your questions. Feel free to hit me up if you ever need more ideas or just want to bounce something off me.
Paul