I'll only attempt to answer part two of your questions. Only three wires are required and you don't have to get inside the steering wheel to make the connections. One is the steering wheel control wire which you can connect to in the factory radio wiring harness right behind your head unit. The other two connections are a 12 volt + and ground. These two can also made in the wiring harness. You can download the PAC SWI-X manual from Crutchfield as it may be of help.
http://akamaipix.crutchfield.com/Man...27/127SWIX.PDF.